Many nights I walk around the house in pink, fuzzy slippers with worn out shorts or lounge pants and a t-shirt. My hair is going all different directions or twisted up in a knot (as my husband calls it). I may or may not have make-up on and 9 times out of 10 if I do have it on, I look like a raccoon because my mascara has long since stopped doing it’s job and moved further south to the under-eye area.
To me this does not present a pretty picture but to my husband this ‘look’ is sexy.
I often laugh at him when he tells me this and ask him if he needs glasses but one look at his eyes and I know he is telling me what he truly believes. I know he’s not just saying that to make me feel better, he DOES think I’m sexy, even when dressed, or not so dressed, what I call ‘frumpy’. I don’t necessarily ‘feel’ sexy but if he thinks I am then needless to say I won’t argue with him.
I, on the other hand, cannot say that I find him sexy with mussed hair and worn out shorts.
Not that he isn’t attractive.
It’s just not one of the things that would make me walk up to him and say, “You sure are sexy in that outfit”.
I would most likely tell him he’s sexy when he’s doing something with his hands. Watching the arm muscles move just does something for me.
Not sure what but it does. I also would more inclined to make compliments when I see his dimples appear on each side of his mouth with a certain sexy smile.
The way I can get glimpses of his chest with certain shirts is sexy to me.
Sometimes it’s more about the way he looks and sometimes it’s more about the way he moves or maybe even certain things he does that are sexy to me. Sometimes it’s the combination of everything that is sexy.

I can’t really define ‘sexy’ in one simple sentence. For me, ‘sexy’ means different things at different times.
What about you, fellow bloggers, what do you think is sexy?